• rmuk@feddit.uk
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    6 months ago

    “You shouldn’t be sad while others have it worse.”

    Therefore,

    “You shouldn’t be happy while others have it better.”

  • OpenStars@discuss.online
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    6 months ago

    Can you imagine if the frown turned into a smile upon hearing that? That’s the true depressing thought (that we would take pleasure in hearing of others misery).

  • Mnemnosyne@sh.itjust.works
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    6 months ago

    For a few people, this kind of thinking helps. It does for me, actually. When I feel like my life sucks it can help to compare myself to an imaginary Anglo-Saxon peasant woman during the invasion of the Sons of Lodbrok, and it actually helps to realize just how much better I have it than her.

    But that doesn’t work for everyone, and even those it works for kinda need to do the comparison themselves, not have it pushed on them.

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      6 months ago

      It can also make a person feel worse by making them feel like they’re a bad person for daring to have depression when there are others who have worse lives.