I bring it because people have used me many times for their own ends wherever I go and I wanted to clarify how to find people you trust especially if you have autism like me.
I bring it because people have used me many times for their own ends wherever I go and I wanted to clarify how to find people you trust especially if you have autism like me.
Look, there’s an apple.
No it's not; it's a peach!
They punish you
You get categorized
They use passive insults
You’re too sensitive
You feel the need to explain yourself
You’re scared/embarrassed to tell others about them
You feel the need to hide your strengths
Stealing
They control your access to your needs
You hide things you value
They bring up the past to make you feel bad about yourself
They exaggerate your mistakes
They hold a grudge/can’t forgive
They surround themselves with people of lesser faculty
They’re stagnant/don’t grow
They insult or share their partner’s/friend’s secrets
They boast about how bad things will never happen to them
Antagonizing
Escalation