• @return2ozma@lemmy.worldOP
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    321 month ago

    They literally asked “oh, what do you have to take care of?” I said “I have an oil change scheduled” and they said “oh I can go with you”

    • @Ledivin@lemmy.world
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      511 month ago

      “No thanks”

      Look, I understand, I have social anxiety, but you just need to say what you want and move on. Of they don’t like it, then they don’t like it - who cares?

    • Riskable
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      241 month ago

      Tell them, “Sure! You can ride in the trunk 👍”

    • @intensely_human@lemm.ee
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      171 month ago

      That person desperately needs someone in their life to tell them the truth.

      “I am done hanging out. I need to be alone now”

      Some people are autistic and as an autistic person myself believe me when I say there is like one in ten thousand people who will actually tell the truth, and they only do it once in a blue moon.

      Be that person.

    • Maeve
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      51 month ago

      It happens. Sometimes just “I need some personal time.”

    • @Gingerlegs@lemmy.world
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      1 month ago

      “That would be fun but after that I have to xxxxxxx for my mom, then….xxxxxx”

      Imply the ‘no’ - that would be butttttt nope.