Tanis Nikana@lemmy.world to Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 21 days agoI have stopped trying to pass for cis. Now I just pass for "someone cis people try staunchly and vehemently not to look at," and it's nice.lemmy.worldimagemessage-square77fedilinkarrow-up1298arrow-down114
arrow-up1284arrow-down1imageI have stopped trying to pass for cis. Now I just pass for "someone cis people try staunchly and vehemently not to look at," and it's nice.lemmy.worldTanis Nikana@lemmy.world to Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 21 days agomessage-square77fedilink
minus-squareTanis Nikana@lemmy.worldOPlinkfedilinkarrow-up11·20 days agoMy dad messaged me to say “you look sad.” Nope, not in these clothes, but there’s certain facial expressions that are part of the aesthetic, a fierce determination and stoicness.
minus-squareyuri@pawb.sociallinkfedilinkarrow-up9·20 days agoI’d say “self determined”, “sad” didn’t even cross my mind. my dad doesn’t get it either 😂
minus-squareTanis Nikana@lemmy.worldOPlinkfedilinkarrow-up10·edit-220 days agoSelf-determined what we gotta look like when we dress to slay literal gods. It’s what gives us the sheer moxie to make the clothes work.
My dad messaged me to say “you look sad.” Nope, not in these clothes, but there’s certain facial expressions that are part of the aesthetic, a fierce determination and stoicness.
I’d say “self determined”, “sad” didn’t even cross my mind.
my dad doesn’t get it either 😂
Self-determined what we gotta look like when we dress to slay literal gods. It’s what gives us the sheer moxie to make the clothes work.
i love your whole vibe, keep at it 💖