Emily (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneM to Trans@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 6 months agoDid your sexuality change after you came out? If so, how?NSFWmessage-squaremessage-square6fedilinkarrow-up11arrow-down10
arrow-up11arrow-down1message-squareDid your sexuality change after you came out? If so, how?NSFWEmily (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneM to Trans@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 6 months agomessage-square6fedilink
minus-squarestevedidwhat_infosec@infosec.publinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·6 months agoWe call that harassment/xenophobia where I’m from Not to say that any of your identity is false, just calling out the behavior for what it was, on the surface, from an outsiders perspective
minus-squareEmily (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPMlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·6 months agoI’m not saying people didn’t ever call me gay unkindly, but it wasn’t like that. People were more just surprised when I identified as straight, or when I didn’t show much interest in men.
We call that harassment/xenophobia where I’m from
Not to say that any of your identity is false, just calling out the behavior for what it was, on the surface, from an outsiders perspective
I’m not saying people didn’t ever call me gay unkindly, but it wasn’t like that. People were more just surprised when I identified as straight, or when I didn’t show much interest in men.
Fair enough
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