So for those of you who do not know a cuckquean is a woman that enjoys watching her boyfriend/husband have sex with other women who are younger, hotter than her. A cuckcake is the female version of a bull that is younger, hotter and has bigger tits than the cuckquean. the cuckcake’s job is to make sure the cuckquean knows how inferior she is.

In some situations the cake might never actually be seen by the cuckquean. The cuckquean may just hear about her husbands affairs. Perhaps getting letters or dirty panties.

At other times, the cuckcake might be there, involved in the direct humiliation of the cuckquean. Often with the cuckquean watching, preparing, or cleaning up after the cake.

Sometimes the cuckcake is quite dominant – leading the humialition and actively degrading the cuckquean.

Cuckqueaning is an actual kink that lots of women from the kink community enjoy. Some cuckqueans enjoy the humialition and degradation from it and some cuckqueans enjoy just watching their boyfriend/husband have sex with other women who are younger and more attractive than them.

So my question to you is hypothetically speaking if your girlfriend was into cuckqueaning would you cuckquean her or no?

Me personally if my girlfriend was into cuckqueaning I would cuckquean her but I would have a very long conversation with her first about it to know for sure if this is something she actually wants to or not and to know what type of humiliation she likes and doesn’t like.

  • Jed_Martin@lemmynsfw.com
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    19 hours ago

    Generally I’d be open for it, but extremely skeptical. If possible I’d try to find a soft path instead of jumping right in and fucking another women. Maybe through roleplay, flirting etc. Either playing in that realm is enough, she wants more or backs of.

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    9 days ago

    A cuckcake is the female version of a bull that is younger, hotter and has bigger tits than the cuckquean. the cuckcake’s job is to make sure the cuckquean knows how inferior she is.

    This is misleading. Just like cuckolding this can be the case but it does not strictly has to be. A bull or cuckcake can be older too and don’t have to be strictly better looking (which is subjective anyway) or have bigger breasts / dicks than the cuckquean / cuckold. Cuckqueaning and cuckolding also does not have to involve humiliation & degradation.

    Personally I don’t know what I’d do, aside from having some in depth conversations about it if anything - assuming they’d confess in the first place. It’s not quite as stigmatized as cuckolding but I’m sure a woman would be still ashamed to have such a kink, so I’d at least commend her for being brave enough and thank her for trusting me enough to tell me.

    Whether on playing it out… Not sure. Roleplay would be one way to experiment but the reality of such kinks is often not the same as they are in your fantasy, and you don’t want to take steps you can’t walk back on and potentially ruin the relationship. On the other hand you of course don’t want to be sexually incompatible and leave your partner unsatisfied. But there’s a lot of hypotheticals and variables at play as well, which always have to be discussed. Communication is definitely even more important in such cases, than it is anyway within a relationship.

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    10 days ago

    Roleplay it with AI. You might be surprised at how the psychology plays out.

  • Klnsfw 🏳️‍🌈@lemmynsfw.com
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    8 days ago

    I’m absolutely not into humiliation, dom/sub, etc. But we’re in an open relationship, so she could find others partners for this kind of stuff.