Hey folks, sorry but since this is old and due to controversial nature of the post regarding the Egg prime Directive, I’ve decided to lock it since it has recently attracted some unfriendly people, thank you for understanding.

I had a lot of female friends in school, and related a lot to girls, but I’m still not a girl. In fact I’m not really anything
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I agree, gender is extremely overrated 🖤🤍💚🤍🖤

Probably assholes who just hate femboys.

That’s called meta-roleplaying, honestly not a fan of it. It really limits and ruins the experience, both in video games and TTRPGs. The goal of fantasy is to do things you can’t do, to be someone who isn’t you.

It’s a bad practice that I was told when learning TTRPGs that I should work on breaking it. You can get much more out of the game if you do. Like why limit yourself to a certain race or class just because you think it’s what you’d be if you were in the game, that’s not you in the game, it’s someone else, whoever you want it to be in fact, don’t squander that opportunity.

It’s one thing that always puzzled me about this argument. Like in a fantasy you should be aiming to try new things, think outside of the box. I mean some people maybe don’t but in my opinion if you’re not then in my opinion you’re playing the game wrong.

I can’t, I barely have any androgens at all (only small levels of testosterone and estrogen in equal parts), that’s probably a bad thing and I probably should be taking hormones of some kind but I’d prefer my body not be masculine or feminized, and I’m also too lazy to get them prescribed. I mean it’s worked out well enough for me for the past 20 or so years so it’ll probably be fine, and if it isn’t oh well I guess.

Should also crosspost this to !femboy@lemmy.blahaj.zone I think this seems relevant for that community, too bad we don’t have a c/femboymemes, this would go even better there.

I think the implication was cisgender people who are gender non-conforming. That term is often misused to refer specifically to people who are trans or nonbinary when it actually just means people who don’t conform to gender stereotypes regardless of their gender identity.

Glad I could be helpful, if anyone is interested I made a community to discuss Isogender experiences !isogender@lemmy.blahaj.zone

Well you’d benefit from that part then.

Yeah, it’s nice to see more people posting here again.

You didn’t do anything wrong by the way OP, I just leave these reminders on posts where it seems like violations may happen in the comments to remind others to keep it together.

Do you at least want to be cute and feminine?

You can always shave or use hair remover products, most femboys do that since they usually still have body hair. Hell most women do that, because even women have body hair.

Of course, as long as they’re valid reposts to related communties/groups (can also post it to Masotodon) and you don’t spam.

Yeah, it sucks when the country you live in is unaccepting or hostile and/or also enforces stupid gender stereotypes of what people can and can’t wear. I’m glad I live somewhere that is largely accepting, it sucks to deal with people who are transphobic or hostile towards gender-non-conformity.

It’ll still be better than Trump who will work single-handedly to do everything in his power to make the situation worse.

There’s nothing wrong with wearing feminine clothes for Halloween, or even just for the hell of it. Clothes are cloth and anyone can wear them, I’ll never understand people who are so funny about some people wearing certain clothes or try to restrict others from wearing them for no good reason.
Just let people wear fem clothes if they want to.