I know. My child had a terrible time* of it, during their school years. And I’m slowly* becoming more aware, because I’ve almost no filter and blurt out whatever crosses my mind. I’m addressing it, but reversion sneaks up on me. I just have to keep working at that, and way too often, missing what seems obvious to others or very belatedly.
*Yay autocorrect
Maybe we should raise our standard to “don’t bully.”
Whatever works! I’m ok with this and it made me smile, in a good way. Thanks op.