My wife and I have a bit of an exhibitionist streak. I think “Candaulism” is the best description of what I enjoy - I love the idea of her being desired, but still submissive to me. So a couple of months ago we were fucking somewhere public late at night and we thought we had been caught for sure by a security guard. We zipped up and got away. But when we were fucking at home later my wife said she wished I’d made her stay, and moreover, that the security guard had indeed caught us. Great, good kinky stuff.

She’s a respectable person where we live so sometimes part of the play is “what if those people lnew you were a slut, if you got caught”. But then she admitted she would have offered to suck his cock while I fucked her to keep us out of trouble. And I swear now I can hardly think of anything else.

She’s never been with anyone else - we’re together two decades since we got together as teens - but the idea of her getting to be a bit slutty and crossing over from putting on a show to audience participation is exciting. Me “making” her be a slut works for both of us - I love pushing her limits and she loves being controlled - but who knows if an opportunity like that will ever come up again.