I like tease and denial stuff. My ex got into it for me. The first night we spent together, he ruined my orgasm perfectly and then locked me in chastity for 3 months.

I’ve never had that happen. It does happen with blue balls on occasion. But ya know, I have hands and can take care of myself if need be, so don’t let guys use that as a pressure tactic.

My ex/FWB came into town for an event and got a hotel room. I met up with him before the event and he teased me hard. I think he edged me about 10 times and then told me to get ready. We had a good time at the event, and when we got back to the hotel, he teased me some more and had me begging to cum. He finally let me cum on his chest as long as I licked it up after. It was a lot of fun.

I love people who love things I do as well. A couple examples from recent memory: I love black metal and I was wearing a hoodie from an obscure band and this guy recognized the logo. We had a long talk about music and that was definitely a huge turn on. I also really love when people geek out about stuff, and I met a guy who’s a mechanical engineer and he was happy to talk about his job and all the things that go along with it.

I guess I’m just describing having a personality.