For me, it started out with plain old imagination and porn videos. It took a tragically long time to discover literotica and audio.
At least for me, written erotica (sometimes with the assistance of AI), comics and audio give a much nicer experience with preference changing depending on mood. Part of that might be because it leaves a lot to the imagination.
Only time I use video porn nowadays is when wanting to just “get it over with quickly”.
If you haven’t tried it, audio porn. Turn off the lights and the screen, put in some earbuds and close your eyes. They’re often slower burn and at least for me is usually a much better experience than video.