Hello, I apologize for not realizing about the problems around the use of the term ‘female’, thanks for explaining.

Yesterday, I just learnt about Feminine autism after a neuropsychologist mentioned it to me. He said ‘feminine’, because of the gender-cultured reasons contributing to underdiagnosis in women and LGBTIQ individuals too.

That’s the reason I am doing my best to understand by reading in communities as r/AutismInWomen, and noticing the need for safe spaces due to issues with the male autistic community.

Still, I just would like to note that some individuals new to minority-based communities may be new to the language on itself and have this double struggle with social interactions leading to “double exclusion” in certain situations, e.g. in the LGBTIQ+ community.

I promise my intentions are not bad, but I can struggle for hours to communicate a simple idea effectively and still do an epic fail. Sorry.

sorry, could you explain? is it about the polemic semantic weight in the word ‘female’?

i feel “non-binary/fluid” most of the time but i didn’t socialize enough to use some words correctly.

oh, you mean like Barnum Effect? (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Barnum_effect)

i don’t know what is normal anymore… i always thought i was neurotypical, common, but i got BPD diagnosed, bullied, stigmatised because of these ‘completely normal human things’. yesterday i was told it could be a feminine Aspie.

sorry… i’m ashamed, but it’s just my fault, i couldn’t understand. thanks for your comment.

i still don’t know if i’m autistic, so i’m just lurking around. but i upvoted you. you seem a good person, let’s make that minus symbol disappear ^^