Yeah, if its not your thing, then it’s not, don’t try forcing things, that never works out well.
But a Bi MMF threesome is a great way to ease into it if your curious, I’m guilty of helping a few guys with their first times experimenting with men.
And I’ll be honest, some it just isn’t for, most have loved it. But if your nervous, you will clench, then pain, then no fun, so like you said, you loosen up first, not just physically but mentally.
Few drinks, play with her, get turned on, then if you want to be bottom, let him start on you while your on her, (just touching, fingers, so on). slow, go slow. It’s not a race. You will know when your ready for more, then he can taken the next step.
Most MMF threesomes we have are about 4 hour sessions, yet 1 on 1 sex is what, 15 min, an hour max?
Only with partners, and I think it’s awesome!
I just enjoy watching him stroke, and he enjoys watching me.