Our fantasies and preferences aren’t fixed or immovable, so I’m curious what’s the latest one you’ve discovered you’re into?

It can be mundane or taboo or even fantastical and totally impossible in real life.

I’m a bi gal but I’ve recognized that I’m mostly attracted to femininity. Recently I’ve discovered that i really like the aesthetics of boys in thigh highs and skirts and other feminine clothing. That one feels new and surprising to me.

  • Cmack@lemmynsfw.com
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    4 months ago

    I’m straight ( so far) but lately I’ve been jerking off to huge cocks and sending pics of em to my gf and telling her I wanna watch her suck and stroke em.

  • HydraulicMonkey@lemmy.world
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    7 months ago

    I recently got to do my first CNC scene with a partner with whom I have been able to build up a good amount of trust.

    The feeling of power of forcing someone who “doesn’t want this” is incredible.

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      6 months ago

      OMG I am glad to hear this. I got to play this way with my lover of a few years back and it’s so hot but I always kind of thought he just did it because I liked it - for me someone saying no would be such a turnoff, but for me saying “please yes” is hot but “please no” is sometimes even hotter!

      It is good to hear that someone can enjoy the other side of it.

  • fur@lemmynsfw.com
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    7 months ago

    Ok, I’ve got a fur fetish for quite some time, and a few years ago someone I played with (while I was bound with furs and a mask) took a picture of me (with my permission)

    It was really amazing when this picture of me circulated up on a fur fetish forum I’m on. It’s really helping overcoming my self doubts how I look.

    So new kink - anonymous people looking at a horny picture of me.

    (And fur coats, not furry, that’s a different kink I don’t share)

  • LookingForButtsAndSuch@lemmynsfw.com
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    7 months ago

    Recently Freeuse is something that really gets me going as a fantasy. Maybe it’s because my partner and me are very busy at the moment and it always requires a lot of coordination to find some quality time.

    Edit: Just forgot the obvious one. OC on here turns me on 11. I love the notion that somewhere on the world someone is as horny as I am, and gets a kick out of sharing, as much as I enjoy it to watch. It is something that classical porn never could for me, or I wouldn’t get from interacting with some OF model. It‘s like the online version of friends with benefits, compared to a sex worker thats just putting up with it for the money…

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    7 months ago

    My wife and I have a bit of an exhibitionist streak. I think “Candaulism” is the best description of what I enjoy - I love the idea of her being desired, but still submissive to me. So a couple of months ago we were fucking somewhere public late at night and we thought we had been caught for sure by a security guard. We zipped up and got away. But when we were fucking at home later my wife said she wished I’d made her stay, and moreover, that the security guard had indeed caught us. Great, good kinky stuff.

    She’s a respectable person where we live so sometimes part of the play is “what if those people lnew you were a slut, if you got caught”. But then she admitted she would have offered to suck his cock while I fucked her to keep us out of trouble. And I swear now I can hardly think of anything else.

    She’s never been with anyone else - we’re together two decades since we got together as teens - but the idea of her getting to be a bit slutty and crossing over from putting on a show to audience participation is exciting. Me “making” her be a slut works for both of us - I love pushing her limits and she loves being controlled - but who knows if an opportunity like that will ever come up again.

  • PM_me_ass_n_puss@lemmynsfw.com
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    7 months ago

    Recently been into an exhibition fetish, purely as a fantasy, because neither me nor the wife would be comfortable doing anything remotely close, but reading and seeing people’s content about it gets me going like nothing lately

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    7 months ago

    I am a straight, late-50s man with Asperger’s. I’ve been thinking about touching every square inch of a woman’s body. A long time acquaintance recently asked me to meet her for sex and I did the every square inch thing starting at her head and working my way down. She said she had never experienced anything like that before. Another long time friend reached out a couple of weeks ago and asked if I would join her and her husband. I said I would and mentioned that I would like to every square inch her in front of her husband. She immediately got very aroused. I’m going to do it to her in a couple of weeks. I’m very much looking forward to that.