• Sabata@ani.social
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    3 months ago

    just be yourself

    Says the people that tell you to hit the gym because you are unacceptable.

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      3 months ago

      When people say “be yourself” they mean don’t fake your personality. You can be genuine about your personality while still putting forth an effort to improve yourself physically.

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        3 months ago

        I mean you should also always be putting in effort to improve yourself emotionally and intellectually as well.

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          3 months ago

          If the comment I was replying to mentioned something related to emotional/intellectual growth then I would’ve mentioned those.

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        3 months ago

        People have low tolerance for being anxious and lacking confidence. You just get walked over or declared safe to be shitty to as soon as social weakness is seen.