Homie is a nice European guy who dabbles in software as I do. We met in the software (which I won’t name because its community is very small). There are currently issues with its VR driver integration on Linux, so I played in desktop mode while he fondled my cute little avatar. There is a concept of “phantom sense” which some people experience. Different social VR clients have different degrees of sophistication in different areas. Some clients give you hand collision but no arm IK, some both, some neither. I wasn’t using the actual VR part, so I stood there and talked to him while he had fun with me, similar to sex with a quadriplegic. :P