• glimse@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    0
    ·
    1 year ago

    Here’s a better tip: Find a partner you don’t feel the need to keep huge secrets from.

    • GreenMario@lemm.ee
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      0
      ·
      1 year ago

      Impossible. That perfect partner could turn darkside on you years into marriage.

      Most people who marry think they found the perfect partner, but the divorce rates say otherwise.

      • brodrobe@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        0
        ·
        edit-2
        1 year ago

        You’ve clearly never been married and have no idea what you’re talking about. Hiding secrets and saying it’s impossible not to is the most destructive thing you could do to your marriage. On top of all, hiding assets from a spouse during a divorce amounts to contempt of court and carries a penalty and additional legal battles and expenses. Please don’t recommend anyone to do it.

        • GreenMario@lemm.ee
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          0
          ·
          1 year ago

          Sure but it’s always good to keep a backup/bug out plan.

          I would absolutely keep enough money set aside to at least get an apartment and furnish the necessities immediately. That’s smart.

          • divineslayer@lemmy.world
            link
            fedilink
            arrow-up
            1
            ·
            1 year ago

            Then find a partner who is okay with having separate bank accounts that you can keep your own money in. It doesn’t have to be a secret.