Depending on how you two meet it could be very hard or very easy. If you meet them in a sexual setting and they’re submissive, it’s pretty easy. If you meet them in a regular setting and they’re vanilla, it’s much more intimidating to find that out.

I’ve actually considered that. My SO would think it’s ridiculous but I’d find it funny.

Do you have a recommended brand, or does it not matter?

Good point about duration. I doubt I’d be shaving and fucking 5 minutes later. Most likely it would be a day or two gap at best.

I had considered that but thank you for the confirmation. I normally use double sided safety razors so fading isn’t trivial.

Nothing too exciting on my front. Some stroking but just some casual porn.

Most of the time I look at videos or pictures. My interests are relatively diverse so what I watch or look at will vary per day based on mood. Happy to go into more details if anyone is curious, but it starts deviating from the question. Finding pictures online has gotten harder since animated gifs have gotten more popular and many of the picture web sites have shut down. Some days I’ll read erotica (Literotica) and if in the shower, imagination. But 95% of the time it’s pictures or videos.

It was somewhat validating that one of the first times the three of us had sex together our new partner said they loved what I was doing and that it was definitely turning them on. I felt a lot of pressure to reciprocate for my wife for so long because I didn’t want to be one of those lazy partners who doesn’t do anything, but that’s sort of what my wife wants out of it. Letting go of that was difficult for me. So actually hearing from someone else tell me that what I’m doing is actually enjoyable meant a lot. Not that I ever doubted my wife, but, you know how things are. Like when a stranger compliments your outfit as opposed to someone you know well.

That’s very fascinating. I hadn’t considered that situation but it makes sense. That would definitely fall under a consideration.

Good luck with everything. Seems like it could be a tough situation that you’re handling well.

Nothing with the SO for a while as things are dry in that department. But lots of porn and stroking with edging. I often do multi-day edging but lately been edging for an hour or two and finishing before bed.

That’s dirty and naughty.

It’s been a while since I’ve dated. But when I did, it was tough to bring up sex early because it could be interpreted as I only wanted sex. Or…it could be agreeing on what we like.

Exactly, it would have to be a match. In the case of a woman who is submissive, I would happily dominate her, but there would always be something missing for me. If she’s dominant, it opens up a whole new conversation that would likely be very fun.

I could see that being really tough from your perspective. Have you had situations go south before?

Overall, no, I haven’t used food. However, my SO did put some ice in her mouth and went down on me. That felt great. The only question is if you consider ice to be food.

A lot of nothing. Been watching a little porn here and there, plus some quick stroking. But outside of that the life has been dry.

Very little unfortunately on my front. I’ve been stroking to porn quite a bit but nothing outside of that. The orgasms have been pretty good though. Wouldn’t mind more than just porn.